I am in utter turmoil. My stomach keeps churning. I feel terrible. I know she's just a cat, but Minnie is a part of my little family. Living here is supposed to be temporary, but could still be lengthy - possibly over a year. We firmly intend for Minnie to be the fourth member of the home we will someday own.
I hate to fail at my endeavors. If we moved out now, we may not get approved for a mortgage, because I wasn't working most of this year. We could rent, but then we'd never be better off.
In the meantime, Minnie is locked in the basement. The door is just beyond the kitchen and living room, so she hears us and meows and meows to be let out. It's just awful.
I try to bring her upstairs during the day, worried all the while that she will pee somewhere else. When she's out with us, she purrs like there's no tomorrow. When I put her back, she gazes forlornly at me while I shut the door.
This is breaking Bruce and I. Our emotions are all over the place because of this. What should we do? Are we overreacting?
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| Minnie hides out to avoid returning to jail. |

Oh my gosh, this breaks my heart. Our cat is a huge part of our little family, and I can't imagine what you're going through. Is there any way she can stay in your room the whole time? Litter box, food, and all?
ReplyDeleteBy the way, in no way are you overreacting.
Oh, Ali, THANK you. I knew we weren't alone in considering our pet as part of the family! I already thought of Minnie living in our room, but my MIL is afraid that she'll pee on the carpet in there. It's a sucky situation. It doesn't make it easier to be here, that's for sure.
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